The Score
What is the Soulmate Probability Score?
A number from 0 to 100. Not a prediction of whether you'll find love. A measure of where you stand, right now, on the dimensions that determine your capacity to build something real with another person.
Why a score, not a type
Most relationship frameworks produce a type — a category, a quadrant, a style. Types are useful for orientation. They tell you roughly what neighborhood you're in. What they don't tell you is how far you are from where you want to be, or which specific thing to address first.
A score solves this. The analogy that maps most cleanly is a credit score: not a judgment of your character, but a specific, readable measure of your current position on a set of factors that matter. Your credit score tells you exactly where you stand. It tells you what's dragging the number down. And it implies a clear direction for what to work on if you want the number to move.
The Soulmate Probability Score works the same way. It's specific, it's comparable over time, and it's actionable in a way that a label isn't.
How the score is calculated
The SPS is a weighted composite of five sub-scores, each measured on a 0–100 scale:
Attachment Style
How your attachment patterns are currently affecting your capacity for connection.
Emotional Readiness
Your capacity to bring emotional depth to a relationship — to stay present, regulate, and receive.
Values Alignment
Clarity about what you need from a partnership, and consistency in acting on that clarity.
Relational History
Awareness of your patterns and whether your past is still actively steering your choices.
Life Readiness
Whether your current life circumstances can structurally hold a relationship.
The dimensions are weighted, not equal — because some have larger causal influence on relationship outcomes than others. The weighting is informed by the psychometric research on relationship satisfaction and longevity.
What the score means
The score is a position on a continuum. It is not a verdict.
A score in the lower range doesn't mean you shouldn't be in a relationship. It means specific dimensions are further from where they could be — and those dimensions are identifiable and workable. A score in the higher range doesn't mean you're guaranteed a successful relationship — it means the conditions for one are well-established.
The score also isn't fixed. It reflects where you are right now, which means it changes as you change. Life Readiness scores shift as life circumstances shift. Emotional Readiness scores move with deliberate work on emotional depth. Attachment patterns soften through therapy, through secure relationships, through practice. A score taken today is a baseline, not a forecast.
The growth lever
Every full Soulbound report identifies a growth lever — the single dimension where a targeted shift will move your composite score most.
The growth lever is the most actionable piece of the report. Someone with a composite of 55 might have an Emotional Readiness score of 38 that's suppressing the composite disproportionately — in which case Emotional Readiness is the lever, and focused work there produces the largest overall movement. Someone else at 55 might have a different bottleneck entirely.
The growth lever exists because "work on yourself" is not a strategy. A specific dimension, a specific gap, a specific place to start — that's a strategy.
What the score doesn't claim
The Soulmate Probability Score is not a prediction of whether you will find a compatible partner. Compatibility is a two-person calculation, and no single-person assessment can compute it. The SPS measures your individual readiness — the conditions on your side of the equation.
It's also not a clinical assessment. It's not a substitute for therapy, not a diagnostic tool, and not a psychological evaluation. It's a scored snapshot of where you stand on five dimensions that research associates with relationship capacity and satisfaction.
What it is: the clearest picture of your current relationship readiness that five direct questions can produce. Specific enough to act on. Honest enough to be useful.
Free vs. full report
Your composite SPS and your growth lever are available free — no payment required. The full Ember report ($4.99, one-time) includes your complete five-dimensional breakdown, the full personalised narrative, and the complete analysis across all dimensions.
The free score answers the question you came with. The full report gives you the complete picture.